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Neil Strauss, author of "The Game," says "One of the classic guides in the seduction community–men treasure their tattered, heavily underlined copies."

The demand for this book was so high that, when the first printing sold out, readers bought used copies from Amazon for $150

In virtually every encounter between a man and a woman, even total strangers, there's an undercurrent of sexuality, a latent spark waiting to explode. But there's an obstacle. Society frowns on a woman making the first move. Yet very often, she's attracted to the man as much as he's attracted to her! So what happens? She conveys her interest in you via subtle gestures, body language, facial expressions, and seemingly innocent comments. Often they are so subtle that they are almost impossible to detect – unless you know what to look for, and how to decipher them.

Don't be embarrassed if you don't. 96.7% of men in the world don't pick up on a woman's subtle and sometimes subconscious sex signals. But the 3.3% of men who do, score with practically every pass. After reading U.S.S., you will too.

USS tells you precisely what it means when she . . .

  • Plays with her jewelry
  • Dangles a shoe
  • Turns her palm toward you when speaking to you
  • Crosses and uncrosses her legs
  • Runs her finger around the rim of her glass
  • Licks her lips

For example, when you smile at a woman, does she sometimes look away? Of course, she does! That's what she thinks she's supposed to do when any man looks at her. But that does NOT mean she's not interested. It's how she looks away that says, "Get lost," or "I want YOU." Learn the difference . . . and lots lots more.

Amazon reviewers say:

This book changed my self confidence, for GOOD, and now I no longer feel anxiety, self doubt and nervousness when approaching women and starting conversations.
By Peter Green(Chicago)
Best Value Book on this topic!
I have read several books on this topic so far. This book to me by far is the best value in terms of cost, to read, to applicability of any of them. The toughest part for the guys which she clearly explains up front is getting up the courage to approach a woman. And end up with that 50/50 probability of being shot down and having your confidence and ego shredded. I have to say after a single read (I plan on reading and re-reading this book till all of the information is second nature) I went to a local club. I got the primary and secondary signals from a very attractive woman EXACTLY as communicated in USS. I gave the exact counter signals Leil writes in the book. And I kid you not, I didn't have to approach the woman. SHE APPROACHED ME, and started a conversation. I ended the evening with her phone number! So I can personally attest to a successful field test of the information contained within this book.
By Remo Chiun "Rogallo_Shaolin"(New England)
A WOMAN'S REVIEW. She speaks the truth! Do us women a favor, guys, and get this book.
I read Leil's "How to Make Anyone Fall in Love With You" which is, without a doubt, the BEST book on sex and dating ever written. So, naturally, I had to check out "Undercover Sex Signals." I saw it was written for men but I thought, what the heck, maybe I can learn something. It arrived on a Saturday afternoon when I had several girlfriends over. We were screaming and laughing all afternoon because IT IS SO TRUE!!! Looking at the photographs of the models, we realized that is EXACTLY what we do when we see a guy we like. Sometimes it's subconscious and WE don't even realize we're doing it. A woman can ALWAYS tell if another woman digs a guy. But men NEVER seem to. It's because one woman recognizes another's signals. Anyway, my girlfriends and I spent hours hooting and hollering and saying, "God, if guys only knew how obvious this stuff is."
By Penny (Orlando, FL)
Great book full of useable information
This book really teaches a man how to know when a woman wants him to approach her. It has been a real eye opener for me. It also covers all the bases from what to wear, question about hair styles right down to what kind of underwear a man should wear. It's amazing how Leil was able to fit so much useful information in a 250 page book.
By Gary W. Ebehart (Salt Lake City, UT)
What an incredible, eye opening read. So that is what was going on. Leil has identified 26 cues which will help men interpret the sex signals women send when seeing a male. I am struck by how profoundly ignorant I was. You will find these secrets invaluable as you try to gain a more complete understanding of that most mysterious creature-woman. What you do with the knowledge is up to you.
By Richard D. Stehly "Dick"(Minneapolis, Minnesota)

Leil Lowndes is the best-selling author of 10 books on communication skills and has spoken in every major city in the US and many abroad. She has been called "America's Communication Guru," because she has helped millions become better communicators for business, friendship and love.

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